Lesson #5 in my “Average Sucks! Learning How To Become Remarkable” series. To begin the series (highly suggested), please click –> Here
Successful entrepreneurs do this too. In fact, great human beings in general do. Ever ask yourself why this or that makes you feel a certain way? Frustrated, angry, unsafe, fearful? Ever look at your reaction to these things – your common behavioral responses to all that that makes you uncomfortable? Do you notice the lanes you commonly travel in? Not those you physically drive in but, those you commonly live in! Well, I challenge you to first identify these feelings and responses. List them. Spend quiet time thinking about them. Ask yourself why? What if I felt differently and changed lanes?
So many of the successful and happy entrepreneurs and leaders that we have had the pleasure to work with through the years, both as a mentor and in whatever capacity we worked previously, all seem to innately understand that there are many “lanes” to travel in, BE in, gain new awareness in and lead in. They find new lanes by leaning into all that makes them uncomfortable in the present (their present lane) and by doing so, they discover yet another way to be, think, act and react. The happiest and most successful people we ever met were continually reinventing themselves. Always growing. Never, ever satisfied with status quo. The graphic below best explains what we call…
Successful Leader Personal Behavior Cycle
Please take a minute or so to digest this. Notice the perpetual cycle of change that successful leaders are always putting themselves through! Never easy and always challenging, successful entrepreneurs (and leaders alike) all seemingly follow this path to greatness. Notice how they never stop. Never stop…
Pausing to sharpen their saw,
Increasing their level of Awareness (most through some form of mentoring),
Growing and Reinventing themselves,
Taking Action toward that newly realized perspective,
Innovating and taking risks.
During each and every part of this journey, happy, successful entrepreneurs “lean into” everything uncomfortable. They do so because they know it is in that place, where they are most vulnerable they ironically find their greatest strength.
So, what is uncomfortable for you in your job, in your career, in your life? Have you thought about perhaps leaning more into that? Leaning in more not to just discover new answers and ways to solve the respective challenges but leaning in to also discover new, important aspects and facets of yourself?
If you feel you need help leaning in to all that which is uncomfortable in your life, not only is it a process but also something you will have to practice. Practice regularly in fact. And, what better way to get started practicing than to sign up for Andrew’s Hour Of Power. See what so many others are saying about it go to the “What They Are Saying” tab above.
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Andrew Kolikoff: A 3 time successful entrepreneur (one of those times landing him on the front page of USA Today for a product he invented), Andrew is now a world renowned coach, keynote speaker, author and co-founder of MentorMash… the world’s first and only success building system designed to deliver both happiness and financial freedom through mentoring – mentoring both You and Your Business. Feel free to connect with Andrew on Linkedin at https://www.linkedin.com/in/businessbreakthroughmentor. He can also be found at www.mentormash.com and www.kolikoff.com.